關於 have difficulties doing ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

以前的我會看著鏡子，對自己說：

你很快樂
你很平靜
你很滿意現況…..

但有時，真實的情況卻是

我感到痛苦
我感到悲傷
我非常不滿意現況

所以，當我說出一些與真實情況相反的句子時，我反而更肯定了我當時的心境，是的，我不快樂，我不平靜，我不滿意現況。

現在的我，想要真實，想要勇敢地面對、接受我所有的一切，包括負面的情緒。

與其說一些與當時心境相反的話，現在的我會說……

謝謝你勇敢承認自己的感受
謝謝你所做的一切努力
對不起讓你受苦了
我會一直支持著你
我會一直陪伴著你
我們一起找到方法走過這令人難受的處境
我會盡力保護你
我會全力支持著你

我會努力學會愛你

我愛你

當全世界都不能了解你、不能感受你，你將成為自己最堅強的後盾。

你，必須成為自己最堅強的後盾。

I used to look at mirror and said to myself….

You are happy
You are at peace
You are fulfilled

But they weren’t always what my true feelings are as I could feel sad, stressful and unfulfilling!

I used to believe firmly in “Fake it until you make it”! And now I realised more I am trying to deny my true feelings, more stuck I became.

So, instead of saying all the untruthful affirmations, I rather to say:

I can feel you
I thank you for being brave to admit your true feelings
I am sorry you have to feel this way
I will support you
I will be on your side
Let’s find the way to go through this difficulties
I will try my best to protect you
I will do my best to support you

I am doing my best to love you

Because I love you!

With love,

Vita

【最大的迷思：以為單靠行善就能改命】
Biggest Fallacy: Doing Good is Enough To Change Your Destiny

好運自是福來投，歹運便是業障的顯化。

許多人秉持著：行善、保持樂觀，自能順順渡過難關，何必管什麽好運和歹運。

表面看來，這是一番改命而不逆天的話，但我覺得這是紙上談兵，把命運看得太簡單，只知其一，而不知其二。

試問，隨波逐流、守株待兔如果也能改命，那明朝的袁了凡先生何必著筆寫下《了凡四訓》這傳世名作呢？

很多人讀過這本大善書，就以為袁了凡先生成功地扭轉乾坤，只靠行善。

如果你也是其中一位，我建議您重讀，再重讀這本被譽為「東方第一勵志奇書」，以免以訛傳訛，低估了袁了凡先生當年如何英勇精進地創造了自己光明的幸福。

#舊片重看：https://youtu.be/kaAQCtX3xqY

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Good luck is naturally good fortune come knocking on your door, while bad luck is a manifestation of your karmic obstacles.

Many people hold on this idea: As long as I do good and stay positive, I will be able to get through all difficulties smoothly. There is no need to care about good or bad luck.

From the surface, this thinking seems to be changing your Destiny without going against the will of Heaven. However, in my humble opinion, this is just armchair strategy. It is a one-dimensional view of Destiny and having a one-sided view of the Universe's laws.

Think about this, if drifting along with the current, and just wait for your Destiny to mete out luck to you, why did Mr Yuen Liao Fan of the Ming dynasty wrote the masterpiece "The Four Lessons of Liao Fan", which had been passed down for generations?

Many people had read this book, and mistakenly think that Mr Yuan Liao Fan turned his Destiny around by merely performing virtuous deeds.

If you are one of them, I strongly encourage you to reread this book, which is renowned as the No. 1 wondrous motivational book of the Orient. This will avoid distortion of the truth and you will realise how you have underestimated Mr Yuan Liao Fan, who demonstrated great bravery and diligence in creating his own happiness and bright future.

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TỪ VỰNG & Ý TƯỞNG IELTS SPEAKING TOPIC CHARACTERS & PERSONALITIES

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Từ vựng:
* a great sense of humour (noun phrase): khiếu hài hước

ENG: humorous
* the life and soul of the party (idiom): trung tâm của bữa tiệc

ENG: someone who is energetic and funny and at the centre of activity during social occasions
* a wide circle of somebody (noun phrase): một nhóm người

ENG: a big group of people
* crack somebody up (phrasal verb): khiến ai cười

ENG: to make somebody laugh a lot
* extroverted (adj): hướng ngoại

ENG: lively and confident, and enjoying being with other people
* hang out (with somebody) (phrasal verb): ra ngoài với ai

ENG: to spend a lot of time in a place or with someone
* chit chat with somebody about something (verb): nói chuyện phiếm với ai về vấn đề gì

ENG: to talk informally about matters that are not important
* unapproachable (adj): khó gần

ENG: (of a person) not friendly or easy to talk to
* make friends with somebody (verb phrase): kết bạn với ai

ENG: to become a friend of somebody
* immerse yourself in (doing) something (verb phrase): chìm đắm trong việc gì

ENG: to become or make somebody completely involved in something
* a real page-turner (noun phrase): cuốn sách thú vị

ENG: a book that is very exciting
* engage in (doing) something (phrasal verb): tham gia vào hoạt động gì

ENG: to take part in something
* supportive (adj): ủng hộ

ENG: encouraging somebody or giving them help or sympathy
* a faithful friend (noun phrase): một người bạn trung thành

ENG: staying with or supporting a particular person
* a fair-weather friend (noun phrase): một người bạn chỉ làm bạn với bạn khi mọi việc dễ dàng và tốt đẹp và sẽ bỏ mặc bạn khi gặp khó khăn

ENG: somebody who stops being a friend when you are in trouble
* stand by somebody (phrasal verb): bên cạnh ai

ENG: to help somebody or be friends with them, even in difficult situations
* through thick and thin (idiom): khi gặp khó khăn

ENG: even when there are problems or difficulties
* give somebody a helping hand (idiom): giúp đỡ ai đó

ENG: to help somebody
* be in trouble (noun phrase): gặp khó khăn

ENG: have difficulty
* trustworthy (adj): đáng tin cậy

ENG: that you can rely on to be good, honest, sincere, etc.
* count on somebody (phrasal verb): có thể dựa dẫm vào ai

ENG: to trust somebody to do something or to be sure that something will happen
* divulge something to somebody (verb): tiết lộ điều gì bí mật với ai

ENG: to give somebody information that is supposed to be secret
* gossip about something (verb): bàn tán về việc gì

ENG: to talk about other people’s private lives, often in an unkind way
* a good listener (noun phrase): người biết lắng nghe

ENG: somebody who you can rely on to listen with attention or sympathy
* lend an ear to somebody (idiom): lắng nghe ai đó một cách kiên nhẫn

ENG: to listen in a patient and kind way to somebody
* feel down in the dumps (idiom): buồn

ENG: to feel sad
* sympathetically (adv): một cách cảm thông

ENG: in a way that is kind to somebody who is hurt or sad, and that shows that you understand and care about their problems
* develop a mutual understanding (verb phrase): phát triển sự thấu hiểu lẫn nhau

ENG: to develop the understanding of two or more people have for each other equally
* forgiveness (uncountable noun): sẵn lòng tha thứ

ENG: the act of forgiving somebody; the quality of being willing to forgive somebody
* hold a grudge (verb phrase): giữ một mối thù

ENG: to keep a feeling of anger or dislike towards somebody because of something bad they have done to you in the past

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Is it easy to be with a Japanese girl? Here’s what I needed to overcome!

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おっすー！今回の動画では、相手が日本人で大変だと思ったことはあるか、オレちゃんに聞いてみました！カップルとして問題を乗り越える時、大抵が個人の違いに落ち着きますが、
今回は文化の違いで困ったことがあるかということに焦点を当てて聞いてみました！
国際恋愛となると、文化の違いなのか個人の違いなのかの線引きが難しくなりますが、
刺激的なこともたくさんあり、学びも多いですよね。今回の動画も楽しんでいただけたら嬉しいです！

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The Real Threat to the US is the loss of self-confidence
──An Open Letter to Mr. Secretary Mike Pompeo

My name is Wang Ping-Chung, the spokesperson for the New Party, Taiwan’s political party. During the ongoing pandemic of the Covid-19, the enemy of all human beings, including the American people and Chinese people, is definitely the corona virus. However, as Secretary of State of the United States, you seem to consider China instead of the virus to be your enemy. It lets you do little in pandemic prevention but much in blaming the WHO and China. You have even made great efforts to politicalize the issue of public health in order to attack China, which reflects the United States’ prevailing concept of so-called China’s threat. Nevertheless, the real threat to the US is not China but the loss of self-confidence indeed.

As President Franklin Roosevelt once said, “Only thing we have to fear is the fear itself.” The threat you have to fear today is not other peoples but yourselves. Even though you have done your best to shift blames on the WHO and China, the fact is already clear of the US domestic misdiagnosed cases, which had been seen as H1N1 but in fact corona virus since last autumn. It is also your fault in underestimating the severity of the epidemic while China sacrificed itself to let the world have more preparation time. Accordingly, the Covid-19 has killed more than fifty thousand people in America. As China’s population is four times larger than the US, it is quite shocking that America’s death toll due to the Covid-19 has been above China’s.

I feel so sorry for the suffering of your people, yet it is never too late to mend. However, not only did you palm off the responsibility on others, but you also undermined international solidarity against the pandemic. Moreover, you even try to deny the status of the WHO as the coordinator for universal combat against diseases, which in some way means challenging the global institutions under the governance of the United Nations. It is so unbelievable that the United States, viewing itself as the world leader above half a century, is tending to destroy the world order recognized by the international society. The very reason I can think of is the loss of America’s self-confidence. It is the threat to both the US and the whole world.

For Liberalists in the United States, China has been believed either an opponent or a violator to international institutions. As far as it’s concerned, there had been debates whether to keep containing China economically and militarily or engaging it institutionally. Both were resulted from America’s confidence in its leadership. Consequently, the confidence gradually changed into arrogance, luring the United States into aggressions upon other countries as the global superpower without permission from the UN Security Council. It made America exhausted at last. Therefore, the United States has become an isolationist, and even a betrayer to the global institutions they established before. On the contrary, China seems more like a protector of the world order.

On the other hand, for Realists, the predominant thinkers in international politics, China has been seen as the primary rival to America. As they estimate there will be threat if any other regional hegemony occurs, the nation’s fear becomes beyond what its capability can hold. To some extent, this is the real crisis to your people. In fact, different from western nations developing themselves by oppressing and exploiting others, the Chinese people have risen out of poverty at the cost of blood, sweat, and tears of our own. I would like to remind you of Franklin Roosevelt’s self-evident words that nothing to fear but fear itself. The only threat you should conquer is the threat in your mind.

As Henry Kissinger has argued, relations between China and the United States need not – and should not – become a zero-sum game. He also suggested that China and America build a Pacific community with each other. Thinking in the same way, Chinese President Xi also claimed that the vast Pacific Ocean has enough space for the two large countries of China and the United States. Furthermore, I believe the world is large enough to embrace different political and social systems. As western liberalism in recent years has met difficulties in over-consumption and government failure, we should be more open-minded to the superiority of Chinese governance in some fields, especially the high efficiency in defeating the epidemic. The United States should also be more self-confident to have China rising under the global governance of international institutions, sharing with mutual benefits instead of destroying each other. Without doubt, only by doing so can the United States overcome the real threat and bring the world peace and prosperity, the real universal values for all mankind.

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